Sunday, December 15, 2019

Advent Week 2

Dearest Reader,

I only just finished the post Advent Week 1 and in only 2 DAYS week 2 will be over so I thought if it took me that long to write and post the last one I might as well get started now.  This one won't be officially posted till late Saturday night or Sunday morning.  But like I said with my slowness I am getting started now.

Advent Week 2

Day 8
Sunday, December 8, 2019

"If you ever feel distressed during your day, call upon Our Lady.  Just say this simple prayer: 'Mary, Mother of Jesus, please be a mother to me now.'  I must admit, this prayer has never failed me." -Saint Teresa of Calcutta

I have started many days this week with the Our Father followed by a Hail, Mary.  It focuses me.  It is truly a blessing to know we have both a Mother and Father with us always even when our earthly parents are far away.  

This day was a busy one!  I taught my Sunday school class about the peace and preparation of Christmas.  We made ornaments.  My class prepared to sing Christmas songs in church.  They did so well!

The Children's Nutcracker at the Elisnore Theater

The picture of the day was a giving tree.  I have never had the privilege to participate in my church's Angel Tree, mostly because all the families are picked before I even have a chance, but I love that someone takes the time to do this every year and that there are many generous people in our church.  

Our family just keeps the good times rolling.  We went to Pietro's to meet with Grandma Cheri for a mini birthday celebration for Lucy because she loves mini-golf.  Then we went to the Children's Nutcracker with a few cousins.  And the exciting life of a Type 1 Diabetic around the holidays took an especially annoying turn when during the performance Lucy said her blood sugar was low.  Of course this is the time I have nothing in my purse so I quickly buy her a Snicker's bar from the concession stand.   Crisis averted, but I scold myself- you should always have a snack in your purse.  
This is also one of those weeks where we can not forget that Lucy has T1D but more about that later in this post.  

The day ends with me taking a nap and Ariana opening the Harry Potter Lego Advent calendar.  We didn't even light the second candle.  Oh well!  Mother Mary, pray for us!

Day 9
Monday, December 9, 2019

"Advent is the time of promise; it is not yet the time of fulfillment.  We are still in the midst of everything...It is still far off still, and only just announced and foretold.  But it is happening, today." -Alfred Delp, Jesuit Priest

Today is Lucy's 3 month regular visit to her endocrinologist in PortlandThis is a mostly an all day type thing.  It takes about 1 hour and 15-20 minutes, depending on traffic, to drive there, but the appointment is usually short.  Lucy's meter has been needing a battery change and no matter how hard I tried I could not change it so thankful for the nurses there.  It is times like this when Advent feels like it is put on the back burner, but it is also times like this when we need to be reminded that this is all temporary and Jesus is coming one way or another.  



This night we were so blessed in a different and unique way.  The picture of the day was festive tunes which perfectly fits because we got to listen to the Uhuru Youth Choir.  They did not sing "Christmas songs" per se but any song that praises God is basically a Christmas song so that makes them festive tunes.  It was amazing to hear the songs and see the energy and be inspired by their stories of survival in refugee camps in Africa (mostly Tanzania, if I remember correctly).  I loved it, but we still never got to light the second candle!

Day 10
Tuesday, December 10, 2019

"People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anyone." -Audrey Hepburn

Today is the day, I think, we can slow down just enough to light the second candle.  But there are so many chores to do and grocery shopping takes forever.  It is also the weekly play date for Ariana and Ruby which is ultimately helpful because it gives me time to shop but I still take way too long and dinner is super late.

  
The picture of the day is My Spiritual Hero which is a bit of a struggle for me, but I land on the Catholic moms who blog about the liturgical year and make available the beautiful printables especially St. Andrew's Christmas Novena which I have been trying to pray as often as possible (traditionally it is prayed 15x a day from November 30th to December 24th).  A much longer day than I anticipated- still no second candle light.  

Day 11
Wednesday, December 11, 2019

"Food is our common ground--a universal experience." -James Beard


 A very true quote indeed.  I was determined to get things on track.  I cleaned up the kitchen and rewarded myself with peppermint scones and peppermint tea because the picture of the day was peppermint something.  But some joy was stolen when I had to call in a prescription for Lucy which would not be available till the next day after 2pm- yikes for a Type 1 Diabetic!  I had waited to call this one in because I didn't want to get chewed out again for calling in a prescription too early.  This whole balancing act is getting very stressful but I deal with it.  Make a few phone calls and find out a pharmacy does have her insulin and the doctor will approve it for this emergency situation.  So I think it will all work out when I pick it up after school.  Little do I know that it is going to take approximately 5 more phone calls and repeating her birthday for what feels like 20,000 times to get her medicine.  I didn't get home till 5pm and quickly gave up on dinner by picking up some fried chicken.  Again, the second candle does not get lit- keeping it real, folks!


Day 12
Thursday, December 12, 2019

I wait on the Lord, my soul does wait, and in his word I hope. -Psalm 130:5

Today is the day!  I will not have to go out in the evening!  We will light the second candle!  This time it does happen.  I am determined to be restful and contemplative.  I write out the Advent Week 1 post and listen to the song of Our Lady of Guadalupe.  I reconnect with my girls after school and we get a few chores done.  Praise God!  The verse of the day is perfect.  I waited with hope for this time and it has happened.  After dinner the older girls take their showers and Lucy and I cuddle up with a few picture books.  





After everyone is in bed I almost forget about the picture of the day- TBT (Throwback Thursday) Memorable Gift.  I take a picture of our washing machine because 2 years ago we were gifted it after ours started smelling like burning rubber.  Plus I had to add an extra picture to brag about my awesome gift from my friend from church.  It was a good, much less stressful, day! 

Day 13
Friday, December 13, 2019

"Remember, George.  No man is a failure who has friends." -Clarence, "It's a Wonderful Life"

I did spend most of all day writing, reflecting and occasionally cooking/eating.  I didn't even take the picture for the day even though I knew what I wanted to take a picture of.  The picture of the day was generosity and when I look at our nativity set I think of a couple who were extremely generous to us when we couldn't really afford anything for Christmas.  They gave us a cute little tree and a nativity set.  It really brightened up our life and I remember it every year.


Day 14
Saturday, December 14, 2019

"The worst gift is a fruitcake.  There is only one fruitcake in the entire world and people keep sending it to each other." -Johnny Carson


What a week!  Santa came in the fire truck handing out peanuts and oranges and chocolates.  We topped it off with our town's Christmas tree lighting and I even sang carols on stage with a few people from our church!  I loved the bon fire and the soup.  It was a very fun night but I think I am still recovering from it.  

Since the picture of the day is hustle and bustle I just have to choose one of the many pictures I took of us out and about! 







I didn't really intend for things to look and get so busy.  But I am thankful for God giving me the ability to be fully present while not having to think about the stress of buying presents because we got that done early.  I can enjoy the singing.  I can take a break if I need to because the nagging feelings of doing enough and being enough are gone- at least for this season!

I hope you are having a blessed Advent and take time to pray and sing and be!

Continue waiting in hope from,

Larissa Langsather


Thursday, December 12, 2019

Advent Week 1

Dearest Reader,

Wow!  It has been so busy and it has been so long since I have been able to write.  I want to say I have already started off this Advent better than any other because 90% of all the gifts have been purchased and about 60% wrapped!  Now I will not have this big bubble of guilt every time I wake  up, which is almost how every Advent goes and it is not a tradition I appreciate nor wish to continue.  So praise God from whom all blessings flow!  Now let's get to the fun stuff!

Advent started on December 1st this year and is exactly 24 days long- some years it is shorter, some years it is longer due to the fact that it officially begins 4 Sundays before Christmas if I've got that right, but mostly everyone starts counting on December 1st.  I usually like to write a small reflection every day but this year it will most likely be a weekly reflection, but life is continually surprising me so I am not certain what will happen.  But of one thing I am certain- Christmas will come in one form or another!

I am participating in InstaAdvent again and maybe this year I will finish! It has been hosted by Busted Halo for at least 4 or 5 years.  I have only finished it once but I have a blast every year no matter how far I get.  


This year my husband bought the girls a Harry Potter Lego Advent Calendar so usually around dinner time we light the candles and they take turns pulling out and putting together the piece of the day. 

Here is how the first week went:

Day 1
Sunday, December 1, 2019

"The Lord is coming, always coming.  When you have ears to hear and eyes to see, you will recognize him at any moment of your life.  Life is Advent; life is recognizing the coming of the Lord." -Henri Nouwen

I love this quote. "Life IS Advent"  We are waiting for the coming of our Lord- always.  I taught my Sunday School the lesson of Hope for Christmas.  I also invited two friends to play with my girls for the day.  I had them trace their hands to remind them to keep our hands open for visitors especially during the Advent and Christmas season.  
Lucy read The Polar Express at dinner time.  I wore purple and lit the purple candle as is the main tradition.










Day 2
Monday, December 2, 2019

"Love recognizes no barriers.  It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope." -Maya Angelou

There was no school this day.  I remember my husband attempting to make scented pine cones with the girls.  I looked in the garage for a few Christmas decorations and lights, but mostly we were relaxing and enjoying each others company.

The picture of the day was winter coat, but it was fairly warm and we didn't really go outside.  I thought it was much cuter that Lucy put on Santa's winter coat.  














Day 3
Tuesday, December 3, 2019

"No one is useless in this world who lightens the burden of another." -Charles Dickens

This day is also known as Giving Tuesday.  It is an opportunity to give to charities and kick off the season of Christmas in a more altruistic manner.  Since the girls were in school I spent the day grocery shopping and giving me plenty of time to think about the spirit of giving and kindness.  I did give some change to the Salvation Army and dropped off some donations for Goodwill, but I thought I could do better this year.  So I started a reverse Advent basket for food donations which I ultimately dropped off at Hermione's Jr. High because they are having a food drive contest and by today I had already collected over 25 items.  I know the food bank has been there for us during hard times and it certainly feels good to be able to give in a small way back.  The picture of the day was #GivingTuesday so I simply took a picture of our food basket. 


















Day 4
Wednesday, December 4, 2019

"God has given me the grace to see some of the seeds that I have sown bear good fruit, and I am so grateful." -Sister Thea Bowman

It was late start Wednesday but I was wide awake at 4am.  I decided that would be the perfect time to start my Advent Devotional Love Came Down at Christmas by Sinclair B. Ferguson from Truth for Life ministries.  It is a beautiful devotion going through 1 Corinthians 13 and how they connect to the kind of love we should find in Jesus' birth story.  It was the perfect picture for believe.  I also listened to Josh Groban's Believe.  








Day 5
Thursday, December 5, 2019

"Whatever we are waiting for --peace of mind, contentment, grace, the inner awareness of simple abundance-- it will surely come to us, but only when we are ready to receive it with an open and grateful heart." -Sarah Ban Breathnach, author


I spent the day while the girls were at school just resting.  I watched two cheesy wonderful Netflix Christmas movies.  Since the picture of the day was window display I had Lucy put up her Christmas gels and I made a red and green book stack with lights.   










I have been reading to the girls a couple nights a week from Little House in the Big Woods.  Tonight we read the Christmas chapter which reminded me to tell the girls to put their shoes out for St. Nicholas treats.   



Day 6


Friday, December 6, 2019
St. Nicholas Day aka Lucy's Birthday

"The idea of waiting for something makes it more exciting." -Andy Warhol

What a day!  Lucy turned 8 years old.  Neil made Lucy a birthday counting chain for her birthday so we know that makes it more exciting!  Also getting to share the day with St. Nicholas is even more special.  But I actually spent this day with Hermione.  She had an eye doctor's appointment, needed a hair cut, and new tennis shoes- all long over due.  But the biggest thing of the day was our church's annual Christmas party.  My husband got me a Stranger Things Christmas sweater- it is pretty amazing!  















The picture of the day was patience.  Here is a picture of shoes with treats which represent the patience of my children waiting to check them in the morning.  



Day 7
Saturday, December 7, 2019

"Mankind is a great, an immense family...This is proved by what we feel in our hearts at Christmas." -Pope John XXIII

Lucy's birthday party was this day so I was busy cleaning and cooking and picking up last minute items.  We had tacos and extreme chocolate ice cream cake.  This was a great time to take a picture of mix and mingle.  There were 7 extra girls here and it was loud!  They played Twister and Lucy 
opened up presents of quite a few art supplies. 
















It was such a busy week and we are already more than half way through the 2nd week.  I can't type fast enough.  

I hope you and yours are having a blessed Advent.  It goes by so quickly!  

Love came down at Christmas and I send some of that love your way,
Larissa
 
 

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